As we are humans so its natural that we done a mistakes in our life so many times and hurt others intentionally or unintentionally. but the best thing is you should know how to accept your mistake and say sorry to that person whom you hurt whether there is your relatives , friends, partner or any stranger. learn to accept your mistakes except giving the excuse why you did that or what was the reason behind your mistake.
Because nothing is more important than your relationship so stop showing your ego, accept your mistakes and say sorry immediately from the bottom of your heart like you mean it.
Don't be sorry just for formality because reality looks into your eyes that you are really feeling bad for your deeds and then sorry or not, so don't be fake if you are wrong, don't try to defend your if you know that you have done a mistake. Because sometimes you don't even know your little little mistakes can break your relation and no one can trust you again.
It's better to apologize for your mistakes instead get trapped in it and justify yourself again and again by giving unnecessary excuses because your relationship is more important than your ego. And be kindhearted, learn to forgive as well, Because forgiving someone is make your relation strong and trustworthy, but don't be fool and forgive again and again for the same mistakes.
Here are the BEST APOLOGY tips what you should DO AND DON'T :-
DON'T apologize for someone else's feelings - "I'm sorry you're mad," is not an apology, It's condescending like you are showing your attitude to them and treating them as if you are more intelligent. and you are showing your disapproval of the fact or the mistakes that you have done.
DO apologize for your own actions and attitude - "I'm sorry I was rude ," is an apology that takes ownership. Be specific about what you did wrong. Accepting your mistake is not the bad thing in fact it's good for your relationship, and the person can easily forgive you for your mistakes if you are really sorry.
"I'm sorry for whatever made you mad" is NOT going to work.
DON'T add an excuse to your apology - "I'm sorry I was rude, but I was really irritated," means you are not really sorry. You feel justified for the way you acted and you expect to be excused. One way to remember this is that when you say "I'm sorry, but.......that time you are just a sorry butt.......
DO ask for forgiveness when you apologize - "I'm sorry," on it's own, is just a statement. It requires no response. "Will you forgive me?" is a humble request that can rebuild a relationship. When you ask your spouse to forgive you, wait. Listen. Be prepared for them to say in response, "I need a minute, I'm not there right now." When you are in the wrong, you are never owed forgiveness.
Be grateful when you receive it.
DON'T expect a reciprocal apology - Let's say you were in a fight. You were both rude and hostile to each other and now you have decided to be the brave one and apologize first. Don't apologize expecting your spouse to apologize equally. When you recognize you have done something wrong, just own your part of it.
DO attempt to make a repair - Once you get through the brutal, "I'm sorry. Will you forgive me?" it's wise to make the next step and ask, "Is there anything I can do to make this right?"
These helpful tips will definitely help you out, Just try to be brave to accept your mistake, and kindhearted to forgive as well........
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